Finally Reach Your Highest Self.
This is
Ultimate Self Mastery
A holistic approach to strengthening your self awareness, accepting your flaws, building better habits, and creating a fulfilling life.
“I've seen psychologists, read guides online, talked to friends, watched YouTube videos about life, the mind, and the human experience….and I can say that nothing felt as powerful as this.”
-Gavin P.
Everybody has felt like they’re capable of something greater.
You know when you’ve had those brief glimpses of who you could be and what your life could look like?
You visualize yourself acing all your exams…
Or having a closely knit group of friends…
Or landing your dream job that gets you excited to wake up every morning…
But then…
That voice inside your head kicks in.
And it makes up every excuse in the book as to why you’ll never reach your goals.
“It’s not the right time.”
“I’ll probably fail anyway”
“I can’t do anything right”
And worst of all….
“I’m not good enough.”
You try to look up advice for your problems on Google and YouTube.
And it helps.
You get a small boost of motivation, and use it to take action on those things you’ve been putting off.
The things that you know would make your life more fulfilling.
But only for a brief period of time.
You end up:
✘ Making zero progress
✘ Feeling too weak to push through hard times
✘ Getting brutally rejected
And pretty soon…
Your inner voice creeps up on you again.
It reinforces your self limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns.
Then, you’re back to square one, feeling damaged, like you can’t be fixed.
This is what I like to call…
The Cycle Of Self-Stagnation
You feel negatively about yourself and don’t understand why.
You try to look for answers in superficial articles and YouTube videos.
You apply the advice and get discouraged when it doesn’t produce the result you want.
You go back to who you’ve always been, and repeat.
Why does this happen?
Because most of the advice online lacks 3 crucial pieces to creating lasting, positive change:
1. A deeper look into the psychology behind your own subjective problems and where they come from.
2. How to accept yourself as you are now (so you can keep going when you inevitably slip up).
3. Immediately applicable advice that can give you measurable feedback and results.
That’s where the Ultimate Self Mastery Course comes in.
The Ultimate Self Mastery Course
Welcome to
A holistic approach to strengthening your self awareness, accepting your flaws, building better habits, and creating a fulfilling life.
Simply put: It’s a combination of every piece of the “self” puzzle that I’ve dug up after 5+ years of research.
Inside, you’ll find:
Science-Backed Steps
When the source isn’t: “trust me bro”, you know you’re actually getting useful advice. I worked with/studied mental health professionals throughout the creation of the course to ensure each video is as effective as the last.
Actionable Resources
Each video has at least one worksheet associated with it, so you can directly apply what you’ve learned (unlike those self help videos you mindlessly consume but never take action on).
Accountability
One of the most important aspects of self mastery is having a group of like minded, inspiring individuals to help keep you accountable, and to share ideas with. The course has it’s own exclusive community full of people like you that are on a journey to reach their higher selves. (I’ll be hanging out in there too.)
Ultimate Self Mastery
With
You’ll be able to:
✓ Gain a deeper understanding of where your self-limiting beliefs, negative thoughts, and triggers come from
✓ Transform your beliefs into positive ones that will serve you (even through hard times)
✓ Learn to stop being insecure about the “negative” aspects of yourself and accept them (so they stop terrorizing your life)
✓ Build healthy habits that make self-improvement effortless/fun (and finally remove the bad ones)
✓ Develop your own life philosophy that makes you unbreakable in times of suffering of pain
And the best part?
Even when your life situation changes (which is inevitable if you’re a human), you can go back to this course repeatedly to update your goals and trajectory.
And the more the lessons from the course become deeply ingrained into you, the easier it will be to consistently evolve as a person - just like how these self mastery members evolved:
“I’ve done the course and it worked for me and I’m really excited to use it repeatedly.
I felt like many of my own issues, goals, past experiences, paths forward, habits (good and bad) were addressed in a methodical and patient way that felt unique to me.
Everybody has at least a pretty good idea of where they wish they were and what they’d like about being there….the hardest part has always been closing the gap in between. This course….has paved the way for me to move towards those ideals.
Now, after actually using this course and its tools to make the changes I wanted to see in one aspect of my life.…I’m much more confident and relaxed.…I finally know what steps to take in so many other aspects of my life to improve even more.”
- Gavin P.
“The course helped me address and come to terms with issues I’ve dealt with
With a course like this, it really helps open your eyes to different options, it gives you some ideas to ponder over, helps you think through the big stuff….philosophy, how to live your life, mindfulness, [etc.]
You can never really underestimate the human element. I think it was a big deal to be able to interact with people directly.
Especially with a community like this you’re going to find some interesting people to be able to bounce ideas off of….to help you figure out similar goals.”
- Mitch Z.
“I was continuously impressed and excited throughout the course.
“I knew quite a bit about myself prior to the course, but the tools, prompts, and ideas created opportunities….it gave me greater insight into what components or methods could go into becoming something new.
Coming from a clinical perspective; treatments and protocols can often seem and feel very devoid of humanity….it has allowed me to think more positively and unconventionally about psychological well-being and self development.
[In terms of the community,] seeing a common interest shared with others, despite differences, has been revitalizing….being in a dedicated and goal-oriented, goal-specific community can go a long way.”
- Paul H.
Ready to join them?
Meet The Creator
Hey, I’m
Cole Hastings
I’m a YouTuber, entrepreneur, and author who has been studying the realms of self improvement and psychology for over 5 years.
But for the first 20 years of my life, I was stuck in a cycle of self-stagnation.
Every morning, I’d wake up and question my reason for existing.
I had interests, but nothing I was particularly good at.
I had some friends, but never felt like I was confident enough to be well-respected.
And I would go through the motions of life, unaware of what motivated my negative behaviors and low self-worth.
Between the many classes I failed in high school, the countless nights I stayed up playing video games to distract myself from my existential dread, and my complete lack of energy and vigor, I was convinced that my life would be nothing more than painfully average.
This was me at one of my lowest points, while I was on vacation with my family in New York City at age 15.
But amidst all the self pity and depression…
I came across the world of
Self-Help.
And the promises that came with it immediately enticed me.
I tried implementing some solid habits, like going to the gym consistently, sleeping 8 hours a night, and telling myself daily affirmations.
And it kind of helped.
But there was always something missing that would make those things impossible to stick with…
And my inner critic continued to torment my existence.
It wasn’t until I had studied all the different spectrums of self improvement,
that it finally hit me.
These negative thoughts and habitual actions I would take part in were a conditioned response that came from a culmination of:
✓ All my past thoughts
✓ Experiences
✓ And genetic makeup
And by combining 5+ years of research on behavioral therapy, psychology, philosophy, and habit building, I could create a roadmap that would allow me to uncover my triggers and flaws, fully accept who I was, and create my own beneficial way of perceiving my existence so that I’d never give up.
No matter how much life tried to destroy me.
Through that process:
✓ I created a successful business online
✓ I gained 30 pounds of muscle
✓ I became truly confident with anyone I met
✓ My ability to heal from painful situations improved exponentially
And I went back to that same spot in New York City 10 years later to take this picture and prove to myself just how far I’ve come.
If I can gain this knowledge and realize my power, which is the power that every human being is capable of realizing, then anyone who has access to the same information can too.
Are you ready to join me on the path to self mastery?
Want a sneak peek?
Check out the video below
Here’s What We’ll Cover:
(in 14 videos)
Section 1:
Self Awareness
In this section, we will talk about why you think, act, and see the world the way you do in this given moment, and use that information to improve your emotional intelligence/maturity.
You’ll discover:
✓ The key mindset required for any sort of self growth (and how to implement it)
✓ A new way to look at your inner world; that is, your thoughts, emotions, feelings, and physical sensations
✓ Why many of your negative beliefs and thoughts are lies created by society and your peers.
✓ How to transform your beliefs and thoughts into something more beneficial
✓ The best habits to continuously improve your self awareness
Section 2:
Shadow Work
Using techniques created by psychologist Carl Jung, we will uncover your “shadow self” (the negative parts of yourself you repress/project onto others) and learn how to properly integrate it into your life.
You’ll discover:
✓ What your “shadow self” is (and why most humans suppress it)
✓ How your shadow self torments your life when you aren’t aware of it
✓ How to accept, nurture, and integrate the shadow self into your life in a healthy way
Section 3:
Developing Healthy Habits
Habits are at the core of who we are. By learning how habits form, and how to break bad ones, we can set up a daily routine that makes positive, lasting change almost effortless.
You’ll discover:
✓ Why focusing on your goals is usually a bad idea (and what to focus on instead)
✓ The science behind our daily behaviors (and what makes habits stick)
✓ How to use that science to create healthy habits (and remove unhealthy ones)
✓ The 3 lesser known factors to staying disciplined and consistent
Section 4:
Philosophies For Life
As I always say, relying on empirically observed science for absolutely everything isn’t the most optimal way to live a fulfilling, enriching life. In this section, we will dive into the world of philosophy: and specifically, philosophies that help you live a better life.
You’ll discover:
✓ What philosophy is and why it’s so important to consider if you’re unfulfilled
✓ Why most people are terrible at thinking for themselves (and how you can become better at it)
✓ When you should (and shouldn’t) rely on science for fulfillment
✓ Different philosophies that can help strengthen your reason for existing and improve your critical thinking skills
✓ How to develop your own personal life philosophy that makes you unbreakable in the face of adversity
And to make sure the lessons have a massive impact, you’ll also get:
Worksheets And Guides
Knowledge without application is useless. If you’re not applying what you’re learning, nothing will change. This course contains 16 worksheets, 5 useful charts, and a guided meditation. In each video, I go over a detailed example of how to fill out each worksheet, so you know exactly how to use them.
Access To The Ultimate Self Mastery Community
NY times bestselling author and journalist Neil Strauss once said, “The secret to change and growth is not willpower or goal setting, but positive community”. Being virtually surrounded by inspiring, like minded individuals who are also trying to achieve self mastery is the most effective way to stay on the path towards growth. I’ll be active in the community as well for further guidance.
“You will become a different and better person after this course
The course provided me structure for adding in new habits, and most of all, helped me develop a mindset that prioritizes my own self worth and happiness.
The self mastery community played a major role in the success of this course. To be able to know that others are on the same journey as you are is very motivating, and there is a sense of accountability. Even though we are all different people with different backgrounds and circumstances, we all struggle with very similar things.”
-Evan H
Ready to unlock self mastery?
Get lifetime access to The Ultimate Self Mastery Course on the plan that suits you
Ultimate Self Mastery
is perfect for you if:
✓ You don’t understand the deeper reasoning behind your negative behaviors, thoughts, and beliefs (and you want to change that)
✓ You’re tired of letting life control you and push you around: You want to take control of your own life.
✓ You’re want to learn to accept all parts of yourself (even the parts you don't like) and stop being insecure
✓ You have an idea of who/where you want to be, but you need a detailed roadmap to help you get there
✓ You are willing to put in months (or potentially years) of effort to see the lasting positive change you want in your life
✓ You want to join an exclusive community of like-minded members who support each other and hold one another accountable
Ultimate Self Mastery
is NOT perfect for you if:
✘ You already know why you act and behave the way you do, and don’t care enough to change
✘ You want a quick fix, life hack, or instant results
✘ You’re looking for 1 on 1 support from a coach, therapist, or other expert in their field
In that case,
Here’s what other self mastery members had to say about the course:
Cesar C.
“When I first came into [the course], I had just gotten out of my first relationship. I was broken, constantly in this “doomsday” mentality. [The course] helped me deal with my inner demons. Walking out of this, I can see a huge spike in confidence. I find myself sitting down with strangers and having a conversation with them, and smiling and laughing. It’s been a completely different world since we finished.”
Evan H.
“[Before the course] I had social anxiety/trouble talking to people, and my self confidence was not where I wanted it to be. The concepts in the course really helped me fully embrace this new me. Now, I just go up to people and say whatever I feel, because I have a new level of self worth. I love the life that I’m living now.”
Gavin P.
“There were a bunch of things I wanted to use this course for getting better at. But the most basic ones were fitness, discipline, and eating better. [After finishing the course], I’m much healthier, I feel better most days, and I don’t eat as much ice cream….I feel much more confident and relaxed.”
Mitch Z.
“The course helped me address and come to terms with issues I’ve unconsciously dealt with. I was able to bring them to the forefront with help from this course (and the people in it, most importantly). It’s helped me chart out my course for the future.”
Are you ready to join them?
Still Skeptical?
I totally understand. The course is an investment, and I only want you to pay for something that will guarantee a positive impact.
That’s why I’ve created…
If, after 60 days of using the course and staying active in the community, you don’t have any self discoveries, breakthroughs, or positive changes…
I’ll give you all your money back.
Just email me at: ultimateselfmasterycourse@gmail.com and I’ll get it sorted out for you.
Ready to acquire the keys to unlock self mastery?
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FAQ
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If you’ve been watching my YouTube for a while, you’ll know that I love to tell stories. Much of my videos involve storytelling that appeals to the YouTube algorithm, without giving you the real nitty gritty details of the lesson.
Here’s how I’ve intentionally made the course different:
With this course, I have no algorithm to appeal to. Every video is nothing but detailed information, and with that, I am able to dive deeper into the science and psychology behind your current self destructive lifestyle.
It’s a concise, easy to follow roadmap through your entire self. Unlike a YouTube video (which can only pack so much information at a time), this gives you a step by step process on how you can evolve.
I’ve also given you immediately applicable advice, with at least one worksheet associated with each video. That way, you’re not stuck in a false sense of productivity, binge watching YouTube videos that you don’t actually apply.
And of course, the exclusive self mastery community. With the community, you can stay on track, ask questions, explore more info related to the course topics, and find like minded people to hold you accountable (including myself).
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The course has been designed for you to learn at your own pace. Each video is around 10-18 minutes long, and you are only meant to watch a maximum of one video per day. But even with that, I know life can get in the way sometimes. That’s why I’ve given you lifetime access, so you can come back to it whenever you’re ready.
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No, this course is not like therapy or 1 on 1 coaching. If you are in need of immediate, professional help, please see a licensed therapist or psychologist. This course is not meant to replace therapy, but rather, be a potential stepping stone towards pursuing more professional help (if it’s necessary after you finish the course).
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After you create an account and purchase the course, you will get an email with everything you need to access the videos and worksheets. You will also get an invite to the exclusive self mastery community hosted on Discord in that email.
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This course contains every piece of information I’ve learned over the past 5 years of self exploration, trial and error, and research. It gives you actionable resources to help you implement what you’ve learned faster, and the accountability you need to stay disciplined and consistent. I’m confident that you will see a lasting positive change in your life.
But if you find the course did not help you understand yourself better, keep you on track with your goals, or make life more meaningful, that’s where the 60 Day Growth Guarantee comes in. Email me at ultimateselfmasterycourse@gmail.com and I’ll give you your money back.
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Send them over to ultimateselfmasterycourse@gmail.com and I’ll get back to you ASAP.